I was told “you cannot do that Jennifer”, or “that’s not likely to happen for you” quite often by my own parents. “Don’t dream too big or you’ll get disappointed”. These words were said in loving concern by them both. However, rather than holding me back as is the case with some of my siblings, it spurred me on in my youth just to prove them wrong–and I did.

I quote Pindar from the Go-Giver often to others, mostly to myself. “You cannot always have what you want, but you can have what you expect.”

I’m glad that I chose not to expect what my family lovingly wanted me to expect.

One cannot control what has happened in the past, especially if victimization occurred as in many cultures. Once a person, whether in early childhood or young adulthood, or even in mid-life or old age, DECIDES to expect and pursue more … nothing becomes impossible. At least that is holding true for me.

Hey Bob, tell Mr. Pindar his brilliance is changing lives!

Gratefully yours,

Jennifer

On the other hand, my thoughts about his book certainly result from *my* world view. So, taking my feelings about his conclusion at face value is probably no healthier for someone than taking Mr. Gladwell’s conclusions at face value. I strongly suggest reading his book; both because it is filled with fascinating information, and so that one can arrive at their own conclusion based on his writings; not on what I write about his writings.

My suspicion though is that – since it’s pretty obvious that you and I share similar beliefs about success – you’ll probably be in agreement with me. Then again, that might just be my world view talking. Thanks, Deb; YOU rock!

Loved this post! According to Mr. Gladwell’s “World View”~~if your birth circumstances weren’t written on the stars, the moon and several planets~in perfect alignment, then one is just bound for “mediocrity” or worse! Hmmmm…interesting! That truly puts folks in boxes with labels and leaves no room/opportunity for change! (I’m just commenting on what you have written & those thoughts, as I have not read Mr. Gladwell’s book) His world views and mine are SO opposite. I am such a strong believer in the power of the human spirit to do what most folks say is IMPOSSIBLE!
If given the opportunity (that’s a BIG thing), most folks SUCCEED and rise above mediocrity! Who wouldn’t want TO BE…The BEST?? It feels GOOD, period! It’s what the “American Dream” or part of it, is all about. (That and serving/helping others…aka “The Go-Giver”)

Ok…I should stop now…I’m getting carried away and could write much more!!!!
YOU ROCK, Bob! Thanks for your insight…looking forward to Part II.

~Deb~