Comments on: Does Positive Expectation Really Work?

By: Dee Dee

Dee Dee — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 21:15:43 +0000

Bob, Thank you so much for your kind words. I do my best with the Lord’s help to encourage and motivate others to help them during their cancer treatments/surgery and learn how to live abundantly after despite limitations. God has blessed me and it’s been blessing to start my ministry and I look forward to new adventures in the next year. Thanks again for all you do and keep up the great work! ~Dee Dee

By: Bob Burg

Bob Burg — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 14:01:22 +0000

Dee Dee, thank you for your note. You are a shining example for us all, my friend. Thank you for all you are and for all you are doing.
{Note from Bob: to learn more about Dee Dee’s work, visit http://chatwithdeedee.wordpress.com/}

By: Dee Dee

Dee Dee — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 13:52:06 +0000

Bob, This also applies when we are facing something like a health issue. It’s been almost 24 years for me since I was diagnosed with colorectal cancer. Some doctors can be very matter of fact and go based on medical tests and levels but I realized early on that I had to be a fighter and go with the attitude that I would get past and learn to overcome obstacles. That’s why I’ve started my ministry because I wanted to help others develop the fight and strength it takes to live abundantly despite limitations life throws our way. Thanks for this article and important lesson that our attitude is essential! Dee Dee http://chatwithdeedee.wordpress.com/

By: Bob Burg

Bob Burg — Sat, 19 Mar 2011 18:27:31 +0000

Sean, thank you. I love your comments! I agree with everything you wrote, including your summation of Herb’s thought on likability and that it’s up to us as opposed to hoping the other person will take it upon themselves. And, I’m also a big Herb Cohen fan; I love his books and teaching. Thank you for sharing, Sean!

By: sean

sean — Sat, 19 Mar 2011 16:52:48 +0000

Hey Bob, LOVE this post! This concept has been an absolute life changer for me…and like several others have shared, the getting what you’re looking for is only a small part of the equation…the sharing positive energy and vibes with people you’re interacting with, and that the personal satisfaction and joy one gets from gifting another human with good vibes, is really the rewarding part. Few things in this world feel as good as genuine giving to another, and one of the opportunities we have in everyday life for this is to simply give kindness, joy, and thoughtfulness to those we bump into throughout our day. Its truly a gift to self…and the the amazing thing is that not only do we get to enjoy this gift ourselves, but the folks we’re dealing/sharing it with get all caught up in feeling good and enjoying the exchange, and next thing you know, they’re seeing to it that you’re very well taken care of. One of the most important things I learned many years ago from Herb Cohen’s book “you can negotiate anything”, was that when people genuinely like you, they want to help you…kind of a simple truth, but I think this exactly what your post is saying. A long with the fact that its up to US to create that dynamic, rather than simply react to what is offered. As always, thank you so much for the fantastic insights Bob!!