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	<title>Comments on: Striving for Higher Consciousness . . . or Not</title>
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		<title>By: Bob Burg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bob Burg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2009 00:29:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>David, I&#039;m very sorry to hear you have had to go through this. As you said, these people are bullies. And, while it&#039;s one thing to have to put up with an occasional unkind word (and that is indeed a good way to practice detachment), it&#039;s a whole different matter when it comes to vandalism and and verbal insults to those we love. 

Interesting that on a recent Legacy Club call, we had a caller with a similar situation, and one of the other listeners had been through something remarkably similar, as well. I&#039;m afraid the world does contain its share of bullies and they must be dealt with. Legally, of course, but still dealt with.

The fact is, David, it IS a matter for the police. Yet, their hands are tied in not having proof. Still, my suggestion would be to keep them involved by documenting everything that happens, getting photos or video and continually (though, pleasantly) continuing to report each and every incident. 

Be, what I call, the &quot;nice sqeaky wheel&quot; - those are actually the ones that get results. While these results will most likely not be as fast as you&#039;d like them to be, hopefully, over time, it will happen.

Anyone else have any thoughts or suggestions to share with David in terms of handling this situation legally and/or emotionally?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David, I&#8217;m very sorry to hear you have had to go through this. As you said, these people are bullies. And, while it&#8217;s one thing to have to put up with an occasional unkind word (and that is indeed a good way to practice detachment), it&#8217;s a whole different matter when it comes to vandalism and and verbal insults to those we love. </p>
<p>Interesting that on a recent Legacy Club call, we had a caller with a similar situation, and one of the other listeners had been through something remarkably similar, as well. I&#8217;m afraid the world does contain its share of bullies and they must be dealt with. Legally, of course, but still dealt with.</p>
<p>The fact is, David, it IS a matter for the police. Yet, their hands are tied in not having proof. Still, my suggestion would be to keep them involved by documenting everything that happens, getting photos or video and continually (though, pleasantly) continuing to report each and every incident. </p>
<p>Be, what I call, the &#8220;nice sqeaky wheel&#8221; &#8211; those are actually the ones that get results. While these results will most likely not be as fast as you&#8217;d like them to be, hopefully, over time, it will happen.</p>
<p>Anyone else have any thoughts or suggestions to share with David in terms of handling this situation legally and/or emotionally?</p>
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		<title>By: david</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 18:24:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>HI Bob,

What is your best advice for striving towards higher consciousness if say, you have bullies for neighbors?  IN the last couple of years they&#039;ve vandalized my property (torched my mailbox and garbage cans, cut down shrubs, tore down privacy fence)...and called my mom some very bad names that I won&#039;t repeat on this forum.  There&#039;s nothing the police can do...because there&#039;s no proof.   I fear that this year will escalate even more since the economy is falling off a cliff.  

So, how do you compose yourself when you live in a toxic waste dump, so to speak?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>HI Bob,</p>
<p>What is your best advice for striving towards higher consciousness if say, you have bullies for neighbors?  IN the last couple of years they&#8217;ve vandalized my property (torched my mailbox and garbage cans, cut down shrubs, tore down privacy fence)&#8230;and called my mom some very bad names that I won&#8217;t repeat on this forum.  There&#8217;s nothing the police can do&#8230;because there&#8217;s no proof.   I fear that this year will escalate even more since the economy is falling off a cliff.  </p>
<p>So, how do you compose yourself when you live in a toxic waste dump, so to speak?</p>
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		<title>By: Rich Atkinson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rich Atkinson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 17:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There&#039;s a big difference between being aware and &quot;pursuing higher consciousness&quot;. And you can be a whole lot more aware if you don&#039;t resist and react and judge. Not that I&#039;ve never yelled at someone while driving! :) I&#039;m just choosing not to judge and react. Sometimes that takes extra amount of allowance.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s a big difference between being aware and &#8220;pursuing higher consciousness&#8221;. And you can be a whole lot more aware if you don&#8217;t resist and react and judge. Not that I&#8217;ve never yelled at someone while driving! <img src='http://www.burg.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I&#8217;m just choosing not to judge and react. Sometimes that takes extra amount of allowance.</p>
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		<title>By: bob Burg</title>
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		<dc:creator>bob Burg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 11:18:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yep, &quot;D&#039;oh!&quot; would be one good response.  :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yep, &#8220;D&#8217;oh!&#8221; would be one good response.  <img src='http://www.burg.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Nick Ng</title>
		<link>http://www.burg.com/2009/02/striving-for-higher-consciousness-or-not/comment-page-1/#comment-626</link>
		<dc:creator>Nick Ng</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 03:38:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can see Bob go, &quot;D&#039;OH!&quot;. 

It&#039;s like listening to a salesman at a fitness center preaching about the benefit of healthy eating and exercise while he is munching on a Krispy Kreme.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can see Bob go, &#8220;D&#8217;OH!&#8221;. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s like listening to a salesman at a fitness center preaching about the benefit of healthy eating and exercise while he is munching on a Krispy Kreme.</p>
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